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Friday, 6 November 2020 / 20 Rabi'ul Awwal 1442 AH

TOXIC PEOPLE: Bullying

The 5th November, was International Day Against Violence and Bullying at School. As part of our current discussion on toxic people, we will focus on bullying today. However, along with bullying at school, our focus will also be on adult bullying.

The Merriam-Webster dictionary defines a bully as a blustering, browbeating person; especially one who is habitually cruel, insulting, or threatening to others who are weaker, smaller, or in some way vulnerable.

Childhood bullies torture others physically and mentally. They beat up weak kids, make fun of obese and slow kids, and embarrass others whenever the opportunity arises. Mental, verbal, or emotional abuse is often worse than physical abuse because only the abused individual can see and feel the damage.

Bullies attack your weaknesses and vulnerabilities to feel better about themselves. They also use your past mistakes or secrets to embarrass you or bring you down in front of other people. They bully people they feel inferior to, as an attempt to knock them down to their level, or they bully someone else to get other people’s attention.

Bullying Amongst Adults
Bullying amongst adults is quite common. Often, adult bullies are friends with, or family members of, the people they bully. What better way is there to know your vulnerabilities and weaknesses than to know you on a personal level? If they trick you into trusting them, you’ll be more likely to share your secrets.

The adult victim believes the bully because they think the bully shows cares for them. “I believe they like me and are my friend. So, if they care about me, maybe what they’re saying is true. Maybe I don’t deserve success. Maybe I won’t measure up. Maybe I’ll always make mistakes, do poorly…” read more

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The Prophet Muhammad (Sallallahu Alayhi Wa Sallam) has said: "Allah has ninety-nine names, i.e. one-hundred minus one, and whoever knows them will go to Paradise." (Sahih Bukhari 50:894)

Abu Huraira RA reported Allah's Messenger (Sallallahu Alayhi Wa Sallam) as saying: "There are ninety-nine names of Allah; he who commits them to memory would get into Paradise. Verily, Allah is Odd (He is one, and it is an odd number) and He loves odd numbers.." (Sahih Muslim Book-48 Hadith-5)

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CRISPY CHICKEN LOLLIPOP RECIPE

Marinate 20 chicken lollipop with:

• Ginger garlic paste
• Zeal
• Soy sauce
• Red food colour
• Chilli powder
• Vinegar

Leave it to marinate for 2 to 3 hours.

Make batter with:

• ½  cup flour
• ½ tblsp corn flour
• ½ tsp oil
• ½ tsp zeal
• Red food colour
• ¼ tsp baking powder

Mix all and make batter with cold water till medium thick consistency.

Dip the lollipops an fry on medium high heat.

Serve with chips or egg noodles.

NB: Chicken lollipop is, essentially a frenched chicken winglet, wherein the meat is cut loose from the bone end and pushed down creating a lollipop appearance

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OH WHAT A CONUNDRUM!

• If poison expires, is it more poisonous or is it no longer poisonous?
• Every time you clean something, you just make something else dirty.
• The word “swims” upside-down is still “swims”.
• 100 years ago everyone owned a horse and only the rich had cars. Today everyone has cars and only the rich own horses.
• If you replace “W” with “T” in “What, Where and When”, you get the answer to each of them.
  

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