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| 18.01.2010
- Mayyit of: Ayesha Khota - VENUE:
65 St Halens Ave Mayfair West - TIME: 10:30am
- QABRASTAAN: Newclare - CAUSE OF
DEATH: Illness |
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POSITIVE VS. NEGATIVE REINFORCEMENT
Teaching your Child about Islam
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Negative comments and treatment result in negative attributes
in our children, and positive comments and treatment result
in positive results. The term 'positive and negative reinforcement'
is popular in modern psychology, but it was advocated by
the Qu'ran and the actions and sayings of Prophet Muhammad
(May Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), 1400 years
ago. How do we use positive reinforcement to teach our children?
Young
children are basically good. Furthermore they want to please
their parents. When you praise them for their good behaviour
by telling them that Papa and/or Mama is happy with their
action, you are using positive reinforcement. Unfortunately
many parents ignore their child's good actions and only
comment on the bad actions. Let us take an example.
EXAMPLE
Iman is three years old and has a baby brother, Samir, who
is one. She gets out her blocks to play with and of course
Samir crawls over to get involved. She gives him a red block
and then proceeds to build a tower. Samir grows tired of
his one block and tries to get more. In the process he knocks
down the tower. Iman reacts angrily and grabs all the blocks
and tells her brother that he can't play with any of the
blocks. Her mother hears her and shouts at her angrily,
"Iman you are a bad girl not to share with your brother.
Give him some blocks!
Iman
did two actions concerning her brother: 1. She gave him
a block and 2. She took the blocks away. She received attention
from her mother for the bad actions. This teaches her that
if she wants attention from her mother, she should NOT share.
How
else could the mother have handled it? If she had praised
Iman when she first shared ("Iman, what a nice sister
you are, to share with your brother. I'm so happy to see
you do that."), then Iman would remember that her doing
‘good’ resulted in her mother's attention. When her brother
knocks over her blocks, her first inclination will probably
be to grab all the blocks but if her mother is there to
console her and encourage her to try again ("Oh Iman,
it's too bad that Samir knocked over your blocks. He was
trying to play with you, but he is too little to be good
at making towers. Why don't you build a little tower for
him to play with, and then you can build a big one for yourself."),
then she will happily give him more blocks. She will want
to share next time as well because that action got her mother's
attention.
~
Teaching your Child about Islam, Freda Shamma
PhD ~
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